tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43992658923980686452024-02-20T17:13:14.562-05:00Business Etiquette TodayAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00963695815849445175noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4399265892398068645.post-44498671999198546892012-09-29T11:36:00.001-04:002012-09-29T16:16:27.169-04:00Five Tips to Looking Your Professional Best Before You Get Dressed<br />
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judged before you have a chance to say hello. Yes, people see, hear, feel and, yes, even smell their way to assessing their first impression of you. All of this information is downloaded in seconds and
is not easily erased, if at all. If you are meeting a potential client, interviewing for a new position or networking, you can be sure that people are making judgments on what they see. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Messages sent by your posture, body language, grooming and
attire precede your handshake, eye contact and first “How do you do?”. Grooming—choices you make to ensure you are polished and ready to send the
right message before you even head to the closet let alone out the door is a personal subject and the attention paid
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Your grooming speaks to the respect you have for yourself
and others. Its message is powerful. When
you spend the time to present your best self you gain in reputation, advancement,
promotion, salary. And yes, studies exist that say women who wear makeup are
offered better salaries. You may not like the study results but the reality is –
it pays to look good. Here are a few
upfront preparations that will have you off to a great presence before you get
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clean, cut and styled and complementary to your face. Choose styles that are professional
and simple. Women, save the glam looks for special evening events. I have seen men and
women with unkempt, disheveled hair at work, networking events and luncheons.
They look like they have just climbed out of bed and schlepped in without
taking a peek in the mirror. Assumptions
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Hair is not the only thing to
brush. Make sure <span style="color: #0070c0;">oral hygiene </span>is top notch.
Your smile is one of your best assets. Let it work for you. Whiter teeth are
more attractive but not everyone is blessed with “pearly whites”. Coffee, tea,
colas, wine and smoking all contribute to discoloration of teeth. I am not
advocating giving up your pleasures. Just understand the extra care your smile
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you will be using this asset as you greet others! Keep hand smooth and
fingernails clean and trimmed. Nail polish color should be a professional color.
If you are a nail biter—do all that you can to ditch the habit. It is very unhygienic,
makes your hands look unkempt and sends the message to others that you are stressed.
According to research, those who nail bite make others feel uncomfortable. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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be covered. The only toes that should be seen are women’s in dressy sandals or </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; text-indent: -0.25in;">open toed pumps at appropriate events. In this case, consider pedicures mandatory. I know that in the south, women shun hose due to the heat. For a more
polished look wear the hose. You will most likely be in air conditioning and the look is so
much more pulled together. If you opt out of the hose, be sure legs are
<i>meticulously </i>groomed. <o:p></o:p></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; text-indent: -0.25in;">Men, wear socks! Match the color to your pants and no white socks, ever!</span></div>
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</span>– Yes? No? How much? A study funded by Procter & Gamble and designed
and executed by Massachusetts General Hospital, Harvard Medical School, Boston
University and the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute found that individuals who wore makeup with a
natural or professional look were perceived to be more competent,
likable, attractive and trustworthy. Dramatic makeup reduced the trustworthiness
factor so leave the smoldering eyes out of the workplace. Individuals wearing
no makeup scored the lowest. Like the
research results or not, people respond positively to the “I took 5 minutes to
improve my appearance” effort. Many women also say they <i>feel</i> more confident and pulled together when wearing makeup. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Now that you scrubbed, brushed, buffed and polished, you are ready to don your business threads and get noticed for all the right reasons! </span><br />
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<b style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><i>Carolle Vargas is president of Your Etiquette Style, an etiquette and business protocol training company based in Jacksonville, <st1:place w:st="on"><st1:state w:st="on">Florida</st1:state></st1:place>. For more helpful hints regarding business etiquette, visit her site at <a href="http://youretiquettestyle.com/">http://youretiquettestyle.com</a></i></b><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">When you are meeting someone for the first time, you will be
assessed often before you have a chance to say anything. It is important to
understand what people see, hear, feel and, yes, even smell impact their first
impression of you. All of this information is downloaded in seconds and is not
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Let’s begin with what people feel. Your handshake – the ultimate greeting. A strong, powerful handshake is not bone-crushing or overly enthusiastic. It is a firm steady grip and is offered with sincerity, confidence and authority. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The two-handed handshake has its place and purpose. The two-handed or “preacher’s” handshake is often used by clergy, politicians, when offering condolences, and greeting the elderly and you want to give a softer handshake. It also has its place when greeting friends. Do not offer such a handshake when greeting for the first time in business. It will diminish your credibility.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /> Clean hands are expected unless you are shaking hands with your landscaper or mechanic while they are in the middle of working. Not only should hands be clean for aesthetic purposes but also for health reasons. Seeing someone sneeze into their hand and then offer a handshake is …well…disgusting. Clean includes fingernails. <br /><br />Groomed hands mean hands that are moisturized and calluses smoothed out. If you have a condition that lends to warts or other scabs (yew!), seek remedies as these are definite turnoffs. Be sure nails are trimmed. Manicures, professionally or done at home are recommended. <br /><br />Warm hands, cold heart or is it cold hands, warm heart? I say warm hands feel good! Unless you have just come out of the cold, be sure to offer up warm hands. That means keeping cold drinks (which also make your hands wet) in your left hand. <br /><br />Dry is up there with warm. A wet handshake is as welcome as the “dead fish” handshake. Wet hands can come from cold drinks, ineffective hand drying or excessive perspiration. Carry cold beverages in your left hand and grab an extra towel to ensure dry hands. If your hands are overly damp from perspiration, consider applying anti-per spirant to your palms before the event. <br /><br /><b>Jewelry—Rings </b><br /><br />Keep rings to a minimum. Zealous handshakes can make for painful handshakes when wearing overly large or multiple rings. <br /><br /><b>Injuries </b></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Shaking hands with someone wearing a cast or bandage is awkward and can be a turnoff. If you are injured, offer your left hand. The other person will understand and appreciate the gesture. They will also be happy to not worry about hurting you. <br /><br /><b>Now the Moment of Truth: </b></span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Be genuinely pleased, enthusiastic and happy to meet, greet and shake hands. Show these sincere feelings in your eye contact, smile and in the words you use to greet while shaking hands. Letting your eyes fall away while greeting with a handshake implies that you are not interested or something else is more interesting. People never forget how you make them feel. Anything missing from the package will weaken, if not prevent, a great first impression and will detract from an otherwise awesome handshake. T</span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">o quote Helen Keller</span><i style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> “I can feel the twinkle of his eye in his handshake.” </i></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Don’t wait for someone to offer their hand (be aware of cultures where handshaking is not customary). Gain the advantage and be prepared to offer your handshake first. Business settings are gender neutral so no need to see if a woman offers her hand first. </span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Stand up to shake hands. When seated you diminish your presence.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Remove obstacles between you and the person you are greeting. Come around from your desk, table, etc. if possible. </span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">To obtain a solid grasp, extend your hand -- fingers forward and straight, thumb pointing to the ceiling. Aim for the palm of the hand and connect web to web (that space on your hand between your thumb and forefinger). Apply firm but gentle pressure. Give 2 quick shakes from the elbow and release. </span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If the person with whom you are shaking hands lingers for a moment before releasing, take a cue and determine the best time to release. A few introductions may lend to a longer handshake but most of the time it’s just creepy to hang onto a hand too long. </span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">When joining a group of people shake hands with everyone in the group. Do not exclude anyone lest they feel neglected. A simple wave or nod will not suffice – offer your hand! </span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Shake hands when saying goodbye. Say a few words such as “Great talking to you”, “It’s been a pleasure to meet you”, “Hope we can meet again”, you get the picture. </span></li>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Use the same warmth in your voice and great eye contact when saying goodbye and you will be someone people will look forward to seeing again—soon. </span> <br />
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<b><i>Carolle
Vargas is president of Your Etiquette Style, an etiquette and business protocol
training company based in Jacksonville, <st1:place w:st="on"><st1:state w:st="on">Florida</st1:state></st1:place>. For more helpful hints regarding business
etiquette, visit her site at http://business-etiquette.net<o:p></o:p></i></b></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00963695815849445175noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4399265892398068645.post-6696458176917126732012-08-27T21:57:00.000-04:002012-08-27T21:57:42.151-04:00Etiquette Tips: Seven Must Dos to Look Your Best From Top to Bottom<br />
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It’s the never ending, always going to be there, make it or
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should be kept well groomed – clean, trimmed and styled. Save the bed head look
for, well….just rolling out of bed. A good cut can eliminate a lot of primping
time for men and women. Keeping it simple and fuss free can add precious
minutes back into your day. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Oh, the hair in other places such as ears and nose…keep that
trimmed, plucked or whatever it takes to get it out of site. Men, make sure
beards and moustaches are neatly trimmed.
Unless you’re auditioning for the Geiko caveman role, the less hirsute
the better.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Dress to Impress<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b>Clothing</b> – Yes,
it is an age old problem where choosing the right clothing for an event is a
book in itself. While there are many books out there to guide you along the
way, the most important thing is to choose clothes that fit your size, age and
the occasion. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Clothes that are too small or too large do you no favors.
Invest in the best quality you can afford in order to compliment your frame. Trying to look ten years younger might work
well on date night, but not when you are going to meet a client or the
boss. If you are having difficulty
deciding on what works best for you, bear in mind that there are a number of books
and articles that speak directly to types of clothing that flatter various body
types. Sue Fox, author of <i>Etiquette for
Dummies</i>, provides great advice for assessing your wardrobe and adding new
items. Other good reads are <i>Frumpy to
Fabulous Flaunting It</i> by Natalie Jobity and <i>The Style Checklist</i> by Lloyd Boston.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Dressing for the occasion shows respect to others. Consider
the message dress sends in the case of interviews, more formal occasions and
meetings within various types of industry. Of course, you would not wear a suit
or dress shoes to a luau at the beach. If you are dressing to impress, dress as
if you have the position you are aspiring to obtain or like the individuals you
will be mingling with. Bankers and accountants will dress much differently than
those in “creative/artsy” careers. Always strive to look the part.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b>Shoes </b>– Buy good
quality shoes, making sure to keep them clean, polished and in good repair.
People notice footwear more than you realize. Invest in good fitting, sensible
shoes. If you succumb to fashion, as I do, be sure you can walk safely and keep
those heels in repair. You can polish your shoes yourself as needed or treat
yourself to a shoeshine. I know folks who take their shoes periodically to a
cobbler for refurbishing. This adds years to the life of a favorite pair of
shoes. Also have a couple of pair of
dress shoes so you can switch out your shoes when the occasion merits. This not
only adds style points, it also adds years to their life. To prevent foot
odors, invest in foot powders or sprays. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<b>Hose</b> – Or no
hose? That is the question. And it’s a
tricky one. If you live in any of the hot southern states, hose (nylons) in the
summer can be considered cruel and unusual punishment. If the occasion is
ultra-formal or executive business where you will be in air-conditioning, I
recommend going with hose. You will look more polished and put together. If you
just can’t go there, be sure legs are clean shaven, buffed is better (gosh, did
I have to say that!) and that you are not wearing sandals. Should your event be
sandal approved, make sure you have a fresh pedicure and save all of but the
classiest of flip flops for the beach. Men, keep your sandals for the beach or
the most extreme casual of events like barbeques in your own back yard. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 18px;">How Do You Define Casual?<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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What does casual mean nowadays? When in doubt, think of dressing one step down from what you would usually wear. Sliding beyond that is courting disaster.</div>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Now Stand Up Straight and Smile<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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Ok, now that you are scrubbed, polished and sporting some
classy threads, improve your look even more. Present yourself with confidence
through your body posture. Be sure to
smile and make eye contact. You will be inviting to others and feel good about
yourself. <o:p></o:p></div>
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While this article didn’t attempt to cover everything, by
considering the basics presented above, you will be assured of making sure that
your first impression has you off to a great start.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b><i>Carolle Vargas is president of Your Etiquette Style, <a href="http://www.youretiquettestyle.com/">www.youretiquettestyle.com</a> , a
business etiquette and professional comportment training firm in Jacksonville,
Florida.<o:p></o:p></i></b></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00963695815849445175noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4399265892398068645.post-81614719127106390342012-08-27T10:07:00.000-04:002012-08-25T10:46:30.463-04:00Business Etiquette Training: Five Tips on Being a Great Dining Guest<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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<a href="http://www.stonebtb.com/uploadfile/old/industry/images_news_ftb/11Finissing_The_Business_Meal.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://www.stonebtb.com/uploadfile/old/industry/images_news_ftb/11Finissing_The_Business_Meal.jpg" /></a>Other than grabbing a bite to eat or heading out to dinner
with friends, whenever a dining invitation is extended your way a couple of
things may pop into your mind: “What do they want?” or “What’s in it for me?” Even
when the answers are not obvious, always be prepared to be the “guest that’s
the best” and your host will know they made a good choice in choosing you! </div>
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The three top reasons you may be invited to a business
luncheon/dinner (hint –per Ms. Pamela Eyering,<span style="color: black;"> President
and Director of The Protocol School of Washington<sup>®</sup></span> “It’s
never because they think you are hungry.”)</div>
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<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span>To say “thank you” – lucky you! You are a guest
of honor. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If there are several guests, all
eyes are on you. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Be attentive to not
only table manners but also to other guests at the table. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />
<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span>To get to know you better. This is can be a beginning
to a great business relationship, a job interview or promotion. People will
take note of how you handle yourself. Do you contribute to the conversation?
How do you treat wait staff? What do your table manners say about you?<br />
<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span>To contribute something. This may be as simple
as being a guest that adds value to group dynamics or you may be asked for a
favor or to participate in an endeavor.<br />
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No matter the reason, here are some simple tips to give you
poise and confidence and set you apart from others. When you are at ease you
help put others at ease. </div>
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<b>Arrive on Time </b></div>
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Being punctual is being respectful of other people’s time. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>On time is usually not more than 5 minutes
early but never ever late. If the venue is a restaurant, reservations are being
held for you and you may be keep other guests waiting as well. If you can’t
avoid the unavoidable, contact your host and advise them of your arrival time. </div>
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<b>Introduce Yourself to
Others</b></div>
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Once you have been greeted by your host, feel free to mingle
and introduce yourself to other guests. Usually a host will introduce you to a
couple of people to get you integrated into the group. If this does not happen
(your host may be very busy) introducing yourself to others indicates you can
hold your own in a group and you are interested in others…which takes us to…</div>
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<b>Be a Good Conversationalist
and a Great Listener</b></div>
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Be prepared to engage in small talk, ask open questions
about others and then listen. Most everyone has a favorite topic—themselves. If
you are talking 50% of the time, you are probably talking too much. Avoid the
top three no-no’s for discussion: politics, religion and sex. Other subjects to
avoid are diets, health, gossip and anything negative. Remember good eye
contact and, of course, never ever talk with food in your mouth. Speaking of
table manners….</div>
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<b>Mind Your Table Manners</b></div>
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The more crisp your table manners, the more poised and
sophisticated you will appear. No one wants to be next to or observe a bore at
the table. Often correct table manners are a matter of not knowing. Don’t be
the one that doesn’t know because the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">ones
that do know will know that you don’t know</i> and that can impair your ability
to make connections, establish relationships and be someone that others want to
get to know better. Become familiar with place settings, napkin placement,
styles of eating – American and Continental. Know what foods are OK to eat with
your fingers and other details that matter.</div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Send a Thank You Note
Promptly</b></div>
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Alas, thank you notes have become rare these days. Send a
thank you by email and you may surprise your host. Send it by mail and you will
surprise and delight! Always go for the surprise and delight –it is so worth
it. To make it easy to send your thank you in a timely manner, address your envelope
before you attend the event and write your note immediately after—then mail it!
How to write a memorable thank you note, you ask? Instead of beginning with
“Thank you for…” write something similar to “I felt special when…” “Your
special touch of ____ was a highlight of the evening”, “I will always
remember…”, “You really know how to…” You get the picture. </div>
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Being a great dining guest is so much more than just which
fork to use. It encompasses the entire interpersonal experience of everyone. To
underline the importance of etiquette, author Harvey Mackay, author of <span class="st"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Swim With The Sharks Without
Being Eaten Alive,</i> says “They don’t teach etiquette much anymore, but if
you ever have to choose between “Incredibly Advanced Accounting for
Overachievers” and “Remedial Knife and Fork” head for the silverware. </span></div>
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<span class="st"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Carolle Wells Vargas is Executive Protocol Director of <a href="http://youretiquettestyle.com/" target="_blank">Your Etiquette Style</a><span style="background: yellow; mso-highlight: yellow;"></span>, a
prominent business protocol and etiquette training company in Jacksonville,
Florida.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></i></b></span></div>
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